Not all men who enjoy anal penetration are interested in being symbolically feminized-ahem-but clearly you are, TAMPAX.Ģ. You’re not just penetrating yourself, TAMPAX, you’re penetrating yourself with an absorbent feminine talisman. Part of the tampon-related thrill for you, I suspect, is the gender-transgression aspect of this. A butt plug would provide you with the exact same sensations-well, the exact same physical sensations. Yanking the tampon out when you’re coming further stimulates your prostate at the exact moment it’s being zapped by orgasmic contractions-contractions that involve your anal sphincter, which you’re also stimulating as you yank. The tampon in your ass swells as it absorbs lube and rectal mucus and whatever else, TAMPAX, and stimulates-yes indeed-your prostate as it swells. The Ass Man’s Peculiar Anal Xccentricityġ. Do you think I could sell the idea to Tampax as a whole new market segment?
If she makes any mocking or derogatory comments, she’s not a keeper.4. But a good sexual partner should at least be respectful of your requests.
Are you game?” She’s entitled to her own sexual boundaries, so she may say no. If you feel nervous asking your lady to put her finger in your butt, send her this article and say something like, “I’d never thought of doing this before, but this article makes it seem like something worth trying. Anal play can feel a lot better when someone else is performing the deed. Even if you don’t love your experience with solo anal play, it’s worth asking a partner to take a trip to your anus. Check out our article on beginners butt play for some tips. It’s worth exploring your anus on your own first. You can also ask your lady to massage the area with her knuckle while she gives you a handjob or blowjob. It responds well to firm pressure, so try using your middle finger to give it a massage while you masturbate. Stimulating it will give you a little hint of what anal play can feel like.
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The grundle, taint, or otherwise known by it’s fancier name, the perineum, is the strip of skin between your testicles and your anus. If the idea of going straight for your anus is too intimidating to you, you can experiment with your grundle first. But the only way anal play defines your sexuality is if you want another guy to stimulate your anus and you choose to identify yourself as gay.
The simple fact of the matter is that there are nerve endings in your anus. Does enjoying oral sex “make you gay” too? Of course not. Listen, guys, your sexual identity is defined by the gender of people you’re attracted to, not by the parts of your body that you play with. It’s a shame that so many guys still operate under the caveman-like mentality that “butt = gay”. There are a number of different ways to play with your anus (which we’ll get to shortly), and it’s exciting to venture into uncharted territory. Even though anal for guys shouldn’t be taboo, it is, and exploring the taboo can add a naughty intensity to your sex life. Plus, it’s a little taboo, which makes it exciting.
Anal play feels great on its own, and can lead to unbelievably intense orgasms. In fact, you can have an orgasm from stimulation of the prostate gland alone - something a lot of straight men don’t know. Your rectum is also home to your prostate gland, another pleasure center.
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Seriously though, your anus and rectum are full of nerve endings, just like your penis.